How to Be The Smoothest! The Energy of Delicacy.

The energy of delicacy isn’t timid or dull. Delicacy in its true sense, gives our generations (creations) flexibility.

Let’s talk about how to attain the best gradient of delicacy and robustness at all times, and any situation.

Eating a robust and heavy pastry is a different experience than eating a fluffy and delicate one, don’t you agree?

Most of our generations require that we use a gradient consisting of both robustness and delicacy. This generates a balanced result. Balance is a key ingredient we must accomplish to achieve the clean definition of “success”. In this piece, I will introduce you to how and when to action the different gradients of delicacy and its polar-opposite, robustness.

Our Distortions Think Delicacy is to Be Fragile

In modern traditions, we categorize delicacy as a feminine energy, but the masculine must also know when to be delicate. We often refer to this as “being smooth”. And smoothness (in both the feminine and masculine) makes us more flexible and collaborative. When we are harsh, brash, and stubborn, we become uncollaborative.

A popular assumption in our culture is that we must morph into this manufactured avatar of a so-called “go-getter”. Become a person who walks over anything, takes from anyone, and lets no emotions come in their way. We have convinced ourselves that this is how a successful person “gets the job done”. We falsely think that we must be 100% robust to be seen as strong and successful.

When we add the right amount of delicacy to our equation, we become present and don’t have to bulldoze our way through. We are then in flow. This is when our actions become more functional, aligned, and fun. As a result, we build energy instead of draining energy.

In the process of generation, our equations move from our elevated awareness into our physical form, from our timeless into our timebound. Because of this, we must always consider the aliveness of the sea of energy that we live in. Energy always moves.

The more flexible our equations are, the higher the chance there is that we will actualize what we imagine.

This is where mastering the interplay of delicacy and robustness is real handy. The grading we choose of these two energies affects the life movement of our equations.*

Also, the gradient we choose impacts how well-constructed the generation remains when it interacts with the rest of the world.

(*Note: An equation can be an object, art, music, design, interaction, experience, etc.)

How to Generate a Balance of Delicacy and Robustness in Your Generations

Let’s use the example of a tree to clarify the clean definition of delicacy.

As you may have observed when watching a tree: Its trunk is more durable and robust, and its leaves are more delicate. Thanks to this delicacy, the leaves can withstand all kinds of weather changes; they don’t break when wind moves them around. But the leaves also have a grade of robustness about them. This allows them to remain in their form.

You may have noticed that the tree trunk also has a grade of delicacy embedded into it. This flexibility allows the tree to move (sway) back and forth when larger external forces pass through its environment.

These various gradients are necessary for each of these individual equations.

What Affects the Gradient of Delicacy and Robustness in Our Generations?

When you generate, it’s important to perceive the following:

• The geometry you wish to achieve
• The environment you are making your generation in
• The stage your equation is currently at

These three factors influence the percentage of delicacy relative to robustness that you must attribute.

An enormous mountain requires more robustness than a seedling. This is because the mountain is more grown and settled into its form than the little youngster. But the seedling must hold the full potential of the tree — it must know what it is, and where it’s going.

The gradient-level of your equation’s should always be flexible and move. You want to keep this in mind whenever you generate energy into physical form.

Want To Acquire Great Inner and Outer Connection? Delicacy is Required

Delicacy is needed for human connection and co-creation:

• When our energy is 100% robust and hasn’t embedded any delicacy at all, we have a harder time connecting with others.
• A 100% delicate person can’t generate life too well. They can’t maintain their form, and their energy drains out
• The feminine energy prefers a partner that understands how to embody masculine solidness and smoothness. And the masculine energy prefers a feminine energy that understands the feminine version of the same.

When we don’t have the right gradient in place, we become uncollaborative and can’t communicate as needed.

This is an outtake — read the full piece on Generation Watts.